This “letter” is for those of you, who want to live the BDSM. Be a real slave, have a real Master, maybe you are thinking about TPE or/and similar arrangements.

Maybe you like my profile and pics, maybe you sense that I might be a good Master for you. In this letter, I would like to explain you why much better idea is to put an energy to a seeking of a local Master.... although I am still waiting for my slave (edit: waiting for the second one).

I wrote this, after many, many conversations, and a lot of them were very promising, but at the end… we never met or went beyond one lesson. Reasons can be different, but the main reason is the side-effect of the distance.

The bigger distance is between you and me, the bigger is your expectation, fear, and hope...and eventually a loss. As the result... your either never visit me or you will be easily disappointed because your expectation and hope are too high.

Let me explain you why.

1. The very first natural thing before any BDSM action (especially if you seek more than one night fuck) is to meet each other just for a chat... If you find a Master from a town close to you, you very simply can visit him for a chat and I guess that you usually do this. But are you ready to travel across continents or countries, and spend a lot of money, just for a chat with me...aren’t you?

2. Yes, we can spend hours in online chat and maybe also use a cameras... but still, nothing can replace a real meeting, and nothing replace a first BDSM interaction... is there a chemistry we want? I guess you are not ready to travel across continents or countries, and spend a lot of money, just for a one lesson...are you?
Another probem is, that after hours of chat and knowing fragments from my life... you can easily idealize me and adjust "me" to your dreams.

3. Lets imagine, that the first BDSM session was great for both...and then what? Will you travel to visit me each weekend or twice per year, and meanwhile we will be online chatting and dreaming? And eventually the initial entusiams will fade. Or are you ready to reallocate to foreign country, far from family and friends, without knowledge of a language, lost in cultural differences, in need to find a job,... Are you ready to take such high stakes, such to put such high risk into a hope that I am the right Master for you? What if after a few months we discover that there is no match. I guess you are a rational person... you see the risk... so you will not do that.

So what you will get at the end?

If I am not the right one.. you will loss your time, money and you will be disappointed. If I am the right one but I reject you or you will not reallocate... you loss your time, money and you will be hurt emotionally.
That's why I am telling you... find a local Master.