Welcome, this is a communication manual for digital nerds or guys spending more time behind screens than with real people.
Here you can find few rules and tips of how to successfully communicate with me or any other real people even outside the kink
1. Start a conversation with a simple greeting e.g. "Hi" . It is a habbit from old times and still used during face to face meeting. You never get things worse if you use it.
2. I am a human beeing which means that I sleep, I eat, I am sometimes tired, I can be busy and I can forget things. So do not expect that am online 24/7 and I remember anything you say. Sometimes I forget to reply, or even check messages on some platform.
Tip: after a few days of my silence... just politely remind yourself with your question
3. I do not care about you untill I have some reason to care. Shocked? I am not a chatbot therapist designed to listen to you and reply to you anytime you want. I have my life live and my important ones to care, so I choose to whom I dedicate my time.
4. If you have some fantasies, it does not mean that all people have the same ones or that your fantasies are more important than fantasies of others.
5. Try to read and see what is published (like this web) before you start shooting questions on me.
Tip: Porn videos are not real life documentary.
6. If you want to get some real life experiences, you will usually need another person for that. Consider that this person also has some preferences and likes.
Tip: Messages like "I want this" or "I request thas" or "I insist on" are good if you are doing an order from the Amazon, but talking with people.. much better is e.g. "I would like" or "I like" or "I appreciate if.. " Especially if you are a "sub" who is trying to communicate with a Dom.
7. Golden rule - if you have doubts, choosing more polite way never cause such damage as choosing rude way of communication
Executive summary:
Distinguish between real people and chatbots (or other online people) and accept that each world has different rules.